Frequently asked questions
Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP)
NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic
Programming, a name that encompasses the three
most influential components involved in
producing human experience: neurology, language
and programming.
NLP was developed initially as
an alternative school of psychotherapy in
California, USA, during the mid-seventies. It
was initiated by John Grinder, a linguistic
professor, and Richard Bandler, a mathematician,
at the University of California at Santa Cruz
(UCSC).
Since around 1980, NLP has
transformed itself from a mere alternative tool
to psychotherapy to a full-fledged methodology
of "communicational psychology", which assists
its practitioners in such areas as personal
development, creativity enhancement, increased
performance, improved communicational skills,
accelerated learning, and the achievement of
personal health and well-being.
NLP provides us with a set of
models of the world; they are called NLP
presuppositions. NLP doesn't claim that they are
necessarily true, but they are extremely
powerful in the sense that they will assist
those who follow those models of the world in
achieving more easily what they really want to
achieve.
Hypnosis and NLP both influence
the subconscious mind and when they are combined
they become a powerful tool for human
achievement. With Hypnosis and NLP one can give
suggestions directly to the subconscious mind.
Once accepted, these empowering suggestions can
expand your energy, skills and resources, thus
encouraging your desired changes which move you
towards achieving your goals.
Hypnosis
It is a pleasant, voluntary,
state of relaxed attentive concentration, an
altered state of consciousness, during which the
conscious critical mind is relaxed and
relatively inactive, and the doorway to the
subconscious, inner mind is opened with a
person’s permission. In this comfortable state,
suggestibility is heightened, mental absorption
is increased, the senses are heightened, and the
imagination is activated in a controlled manner.
The inner mind is more receptive to acceptable,
beneficial suggestions.
No. You cannot be hypnotized
against your will. You must be a willing
subject. Your hypnotist must have your full
cooperation.
People who are hypnotized will
not do anything in Hypnosis that they would not
do in the waking state. This applies as well to
sexual acts. Hypnosis is not a master-slave
relationship. When you are in hypnosis, you are
aware of everything that is going on and you
continue to retain your values and morals.
No. Strength of mind really has
little to do with it. Either a weak-minded or
strong minded person who resists will make a
poor hypnotic subject. On the other hand, a weak
or strong-minded person who cooperates will be a
good subject. However, because Hypnosis helps a
person gain greater control over both mind and
body, it can help a person develop a stronger
mind.
No. When a person is in
Hypnosis, they are not asleep. He or she is very
much aware of all that is going on. In
actuality, in Hypnosis, one’s senses become
heightened and more acute. Of course, if a
person is tired, it is possible to fall asleep
during hypnosis. However, then, the subject is
asleep and no longer in hypnosis. In actuality,
when this occurs, the state of sleep is a light
but relaxing state of sleep. A simple suggestion
to wake up given by the hypnotist is all that is
required to rouse up the subject.
No it is not possible. You
cannot get stuck in Hypnosis because you do not
lose control when you are hypnotized. Hypnosis
is a cooperative relationship. When you are
hypnotized, you retain full control over your
mind and your body. Sometimes, people feel so
relaxed and comfortable in Hypnosis that they
may wish to remain in that state for a little
longer. However, a simple suggestion for
awakening (or alerting) is all that is needed to
bring a subject back into the Waking State even
if the subject has fallen asleep. Additionally,
when the hypnotist stops talking, the subject
will soon awaken on his own. Most importantly,
you can come out of hypnosis any time you want.
No. Hypnosis is not a truth
serum. You retain full control over what you
say. Subjects in Hypnosis reveal no secrets in
the Hypnotic State that they would not reveal
(because they want to) in the Waking State.
No. This is not what happens in
Therapeutic or Clinical Hypnosis. On the other
hand, volunteers during Stage Hypnosis Show,
which is for entertainment purposes only, will
typically go along with the Stage Hypnotist’s
suggestions as long as it is all in good fun and
for entertainment purposes. This is not the
context of Clinical Hypnosis.
No. Hypnosis is not a
master-slave relationship or a power
relationship. It is not about "zap, you are
under my power!" like Svengali type stuff.
Hypnosis is a cooperative and collaborative
relationship. The subject retains full control
and responsibility for his or her actions at all
times. This myth comes from old movies and
novels such as the old novel "Trilby".
No. A person can resist going
into Hypnosis or being hypnotized anytime he or
she desires, regardless of how many times he has
been hypnotized.
People can be hypnotized at any
age. The early years of life are the
developmental stage when pre-adolescents,
adolescents, and young adults are most fantasy
prone and capable of employing that trait to
benefit from hypnosis. Nevertheless, children
can be helped to solve their problems with the
tool of hypnosis as can middle aged and older
people.
Persons who are clinically
insane are typically out of touch with reality
and have difficulty concentrating. The ability
to sustain concentration and the ability to
follow instructions are necessary prerequisites
to being able to be hypnotized. Thus, clinically
insane persons can be very difficult subjects.
Nevertheless, there are clinical practitioners
who specialize in working therapeutically with
this population, and some of these practitioners
do have the training to use the hypnosis tool
effectively and therapeutically in selected
cases.
Anyone who can pay attention
and follow instructions can be hypnotized if
they want to be. People will vary however, as to
the extent or depth to which they can be
hypnotized.
They are mainly the desire to
be hypnotized and to experience Hypnosis, the
ability to concentrate, the willingness to
cooperate and follow instructions, and the
relative absence of mistrust and fear.
For most purposes, deep
hypnosis is not necessary and, in a therapeutic
setting, a light degree of Hypnosis is all that
is necessary for experiencing the therapeutic
benefits of Hypnosis. In other words, we
typically do not need or aim for Deep Trance.
The therapeutic subject (the patient or client)
is awake and aware of everything that is going
on, but very relaxed.
Most definitely yes. Repeated
conditioning can improve the depth of
relaxation, concentration and absorption that a
patient or client can attain. Also, strong
motivation is a plus. A poor subject with a
strong desire to benefit from Hypnosis to get
relief from a problem can become a very good
subject. Additionally, a "poor" subject can
become a better subject to the extent that the
Hypnotist instils confidence and helps the
subject diminish anxiety and fear.
It is a method of inducing the
hypnotic state. There are numerous ways of
inducing hypnosis. Most clinicians who practice
hypnosis have their favourites. However, it is
important for a clinician to choose a hypnosis
induction method that fits the needs of the
client or patient. The hypnosis professional
gives you carefully worded instructions to
follow with the goal of helping you enter a
state of deep relaxation and focused attention.
This is called the hypnosis induction. For this
hypnosis induction to be effective, you must
cooperate as an active participant in the
process.
This occurs first and foremost
with the subject’s permission and cooperation.
By following the "hypnotist's" instructions, you
become more suggestible. When you are in this
altered state of increased suggestibility, your
mental "clutter" is cleared away so that you can
pay attention to the hypnotist's suggestions and
be open to experiencing new perspectives and
solutions to your problem. In this "hypnotic
trance state", you remain aware of everything
that is going on, but at the same time, you
become increasingly absorbed in using your
imagination as directed by the "hypnotist".
Once the Hypnotic State is
induced and the doorway to the Subconscious Mind
is opened, with your permission, the competent
Hypnotist can provide information, in a language
and form that the Subconscious can accept, to
help you change the behaviours, feelings and
thoughts that you want to change. We utilize the
fact that the Subconscious Mind has the ability
(actually the tendency) to accept what it
imagines as real. This can greatly reduce the
felt stress of changing unhealthy habits to
healthier habits.
The Subconscious part of the
mind, or the Inner Mind, controls all of our
living functions that keep us alive, as well as
all of our automatic behaviour patterns. But,
the Subconscious is not as easily communicated
with as is the Conscious Mind. Information is
imprinted in the Subconscious essentially in
three ways: through trauma, through repetition,
and through the language of Hypnosis. Thus,
Hypnosis is the quickest and most efficient way
to impress the Subconscious and imprint changes
in behaviours, attitudes, beliefs and feelings.
The upshot is that making changes in
long-standing, core habits (e.g., eating
patterns, smoking, emotional reactivity, coping
responses) often creates internal discomfort and
stress. Old habits cling and typically resist
efforts to change them. This can be because of
Conscious conflict about changing, but it can
also be the result of conflict between the
Conscious and the Subconscious parts of the
mind. That is, you consciously may want to
change and may have decided to change, but the
Subconscious does not know this. If it did, it
would help you, but it often has no way of
knowing that you consciously want to change. So,
it continues to control the old behavioural
habits and this creates and perpetuates inner
conflict. Once the Subconscious is informed that
you want to change, and once it knows that it is
in your best interest to be helped to change, it
has no choice but to help you change. Then, the
two parts to the mind, Conscious and
Subconscious, can work together in cooperation
with little tension, upset, or stress. Remember,
what you can conceive you can achieve, and the
Subconscious has a tendency to accept what it
imagines as real.
Hypnosis by itself is not a
"cure". It is a tool to be used in therapy or
treatment by a professional who is qualified to
render that treatment. Medical treatments must
be supervised by a medical physician. Similarly,
psychological treatments for emotional or
psychological problems must be supervised by a
qualified psychology or mental health
practitioner.
Hypnosis carries very few
risks. Hypnosis may be contraindicated for
individuals with certain medical problems, or
who are intoxicated or are actively abusing
drugs or alcohol, or who are delusional or
hallucinatory. Hypnosis should not be used for
physical problems without the client first
having consulted a physician to determine or
eliminate any underlying physical causes.